My partner and I are hoping to start our foster for adoption journey (FfA) soon. I have contacted several agencies and have signed up to one information evening so far (but will hopefully attend several). I have two questions that I can't seem to find answers to and I was hoping people with more experience on here could maybe offer some answers:
How much experience do I need with babies to be accepted for FfA?
We don't have any children of our own. I have been quite involved with care of my newborn nephews when they were babies, but my sister lives in a different country so this is intermittent. I have friends with babies but am not very involved with their babies. I have also looked into volunteering options, but it seems like there are not many for this age group and some places (e.g. Great Ormand Hospital) isn't accepting applications for volunteers due to so many people being interested. Does anyone have any advice for how to get this experience? How important is it?
What kind of support network do we need to be considered for FfA?
My family lives overseas and my partner isn't very close to his family. His brother (who has two children, including a baby) is considering a move back to the UK but it likely wouldn't be for a year or so. His sister and mum live about two hours away from us but we don't see them very often.. We have a lot of friends, but most of them have recently started their own families and have young children of their own so we are seeing less of them. We have two couples we are very close to who would be more than happy to write references / be listed as our support network but they both live about 40 mins' drive away from us. We are about to move home to a new area and so we don't have relationships with our neighbours (and from our understanding, the street we are moving to is quite private and people tend to keep to themselves). What kind of support network and how large are agencies looking for? I would also want to join parents groups if we were successful in our application for FfA and would hope to build a local support network in this way (as many new parents do!)
Thank you so much for reading this far and for any advice.
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