My child is moving to Year 1 in Sept. He is mostly 'fine' but does get anxious in new surroundings.
I went to his new class last week and he's not with any of his 'close' friends, which is only 3 other children.
I wrote a letter before classes were decided requesting he not be with another child (this child kicks/bites/scratches/pushes my son on a daily basis in school), and if he could please just be with 1 of his group of 3 close friends as I felt this would help his anxiety.
I found out at the weekend they have put the 3 other friends in a class together, and my child is on his own. If all the children were separated then I would understand it more, but I don't understand why my son has almost been segregated.
I went into school Tuesday morning (after drop off), asked to speak to the Designated Teacher (DT) for adopted children, and was told someone would call me. No-one had, so I went in today (at pick up) and asked why no-one had called. I was told it was the Head who was the DT and she would call me next Tuesday at 9am - 3 days before school breaks up for the summer.
I don't know what I can and can't 'push' in this situation, can I push for them to speak to me sooner, as a WEEK after I requested a conversation doesn't seem right?
I just want to understand why my son has been separated from his 3 friends, especially when I asked for him to be with just 1 of them, stated his anxiety, and they know he's adopted.
My son doesn't have any additional needs, isn't a trouble-maker etc, so there isn't a reason why he would be separated from all 3.
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Julyandraining · 12/07/2023 16:42
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