Can I just say that in the past I have attempted to debate with John Hemmings this issue of "forced adoption" and have given up as he is completely incapable of having a rational debate. His contention is that social workers "snatch children from decent parents to get them adopted, to meet adoption targets" - he has used these very words time and time again. He never answers direct questions, he posts odd, random comments and is incapable of understanding research and statistics as Hester says and whilst what you say is Molly Murphy is absolutely right (and others on this thread too) you are really reallywasting your time and energy on trying to debate with John Hemmng.
He actually believes that there is a conspiracy going on between social workers, psychologists, children's guardians, GPs, psychiatrists, independent parenting assessors, and anyone else involved in care proceedings, and the Judge, who merely rubber stamps what all these professionals write in their reports. He has been ordered out of the Birmingham County Courts by a Judge. He was seriously criticised by a High Court Judge Wall LJ a year or two ago (the full text was posted by a barrister in family law and a MNetter.here on MN.
Several social workers, lawyers and others have complained about him to Nick Clegg and until I saw JH on this thread I thought maybe NC had agreed with those of us who were complaining. He actually tried to sue Birmingham City Council for £30,000 and said the social workers should pay out of their own pocket!! This was based on a case that involved him personally and this is the origin of his consistent belief in the conspiracy theory, even though he will deny this.
JH helps parents who are involved with social services who may have initiated care proceedings to "flee" to other countries, which means of course that these children are still at risk of significant harm. He purports to have a team of workers (none of them trained) who assist parents who are involved with social services. I feel that this is actually doing more harm than good to these parents as they believe that because JH is an MP he has the authority to overturn decisions made by all the professionals involved in casesof care proceedings, which of course he doesn't. I once asked him how many cases involving care proceedings where he (or his team) had intervened had been successful in that the children were returned to the parents and his response was "we don't keep figures on that issue" yeah right!
I think Melvin is JH or is someone whose thinking is as warped as JH. SO please MNs don't waste your time and energy on Melvin/John because he/they are just not worth it and his/their view will never be changed. Believe me I and others have tried, many many times. We have all given up. I advise you do the same!