DD (Yr 5) has ASC. She doesn't have ARFID, but food is a huge issue and in addition she is tries to eat vegetarian on ethical grounds, and has done so for a few years now.
At an after school event last night there was no vegetarian option. DD didn't actually mind, but her friend pointed out to the teacher that DD is vegetarian. The teacher responded "She's not vegetarian, she's just a picky eater".
The teacher is an NQT, so not very experienced. She is generally very good (she finally got an ILP in place and follows it). I just don't think these kind of labels are helpful for a child who is struggling with food, and am pretty cross about it.
ExH doesn't think it is an issue, but I am more inclined to have a word with her about it. I don't want to add to the burden that the teachers are under though by being "that" parent. I am affected as I had similar issues as a child and these sort of comments when made to me have stuck with me, so I just need a bit of Mumsnet perspective please.
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Listinggracefully · 28/03/2024 07:04
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28/03/2024 14:20
Viviennemary · 28/03/2024 09:22
I would just leave it. Describing somebody as a picky eater might not be very pc these days but just means there is a lot of food they don't eat. Or will sometimes eat a certain food and other times refuse it. That isn't for religious or medical reasons.
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