@MargotChateau
You'll be fasted and you may not go down for your section at the time they say because of emergency sections, so being something to do whilst you wait, and for the love of God tell DH to go and eat somewhere else if he's hungry. I've seen the look of death from some pregnant women when their DH is eating whilst they're fasting from the night before for their section.
You'll be put in a gown and your partner will be asked to wear scrubs and theatre clogs. I don't know if your hospital will let your partner be there whilst the epidural is going in. We don't allow that because of the amount of fainting. You'll be asked to sit on the edge of the bed and hunch forward for the anaesthetist can insert the epidural. Some women find it a really weird sensation not being able to feel their legs.
They will test if you can feel using a needle, if you can they'll top it up. Or put a different kind of block in.
They can give you medication to relax you if you're really nervous, and tell them if you feel sick because it can happen, and you'll get more fluids and anti sickness.
You'll lie down and then they'll start prepping your skin with alcohol scrub. They they might have to shave your pubes down further (don't worry this is totally normal because you can't see!) they will use an electric razor for this like dog clippers so they sound very loud.
You can ask the surgeon to put some music on because it's a planned section but it depends if the surgeon likes to work with music on tbh.
Your partner will probably be in by this point. They'll put a screen up around the level of your chest so you can't see, tell your partner to not look past that and try not to look in the lights of the theatres because they reflect.
You can ask your surgeon to tell you exactly what they're doing if that will help. You will feel a lot of pressure and like someone is doing the washing up inside you. It's hard to describe, you can feel a lot of movement but it won't be painful, then about 3 seconds after you start to realise you can feel someone doing stuff to you.. the baby is out!
The baby will be shown over the curtain crying and it's the best thing in the world, then they will be taken over to be wrapped up so they don't get cold, then brought to you to cuddle. You partner might have to hold them for you. You might be very shaky that's perfectly normal.
Sometimes they might need a bit of help to get going with their breathing because someone just took them out of their nice cosy home and they weren't expecting it. If this happens they will tell you what's going on, a midwife will be by your head explaining what's happening with the baby.
The baby will stay with you and your partner whilst they sew you up and tbh none of my parents are taking any notice of us by then because of their brand new baby! (Quite rightly). You'll be transferred into the recovery area and you'll be slid across into a bed. You'll have midwives who should help the baby to latch on and feed for the first time. You'll be made toast and tea and they will taste like the best thing you've ever eaten because you've been fasting for so long. You might feel sick so eat them slowly.
It will be difficult for you to move for the first few hours so call the midwives / hcas / your partner to help you pick up the baby as you won't be able to feel your tummy and it's not possible to sit up properly for a while.
I hope that's okay?