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My husband is with British Gas who are currently firing and rehiring all the engineers to increase their working week, pay them less, reduce sickness, holidays, and negotiating power of the union.
I have two children diagnosed with autism and while my husband doesn't have autism he has a lot of traits and we very much have a routine led life, changes are difficult for him, he's very functional but he find it's stressful.
He is finding things very difficult. The company are playing dirty but so are the union. The company are trying to break people down and subsequently he was forced to sign a form which meant he wouldn't lose as many holidays as those who didn't, apparently about 60% signed, the union is now threatening those who signed and making threats they won't support them unless the rescind that form.
He isn't sleeping, he is having a lot of migraines and headaches, he has IBS so that's playing up. The other night I found him outside in the freezing cold laying on the ground. I think he just wanted to freeze to death.
He dreads any message coming through and they are about to go on a second strike of 5 days again. They are having more and more calls from both sides. He totally wants to support his colleagues and thinks what the company is doing is abhorrent. There is even videos of the managers laughing at their "luck" with COVID and the disturbances in the states for keeping their strikes out of the media attention.
Anyway, I said he needs to speak to a GP, for the stress, IBS, migraines etc but he's worried about what that means. He once told his boss he was feeling stressed (it was after a big change in the way they work) and his boss told him he needs to be very careful using the "s" word as plenty of engineers do their job without feeling stressed. That the company would look unfavourably on him if he said he was feeling stressed.
What's the legalities of this. Are they actually allowed to discriminate on the based of mental health? I doubt he would go off on the sick anyway, but I'm worried about him.
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Fireandrehirestress · 15/01/2021 13:23
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