Was reminded today of a question I was asked in an interview for my first grad job.
'You seem to have a natural business acumen. What does your dad do?'
Ashamed to say that I was so desperate for a job/generally caught up in the flow of the interview that I actually answered, 'IT consultant', to which they promptly nodded emphatically as if to say 'makes sense'. Only after was I was like wtf?!? Women as an extension of their father - are we in 1954?!
Also ashamed to say that five years later, even after three years in a really balanced, empowering workplace with lots of strong male and female role models, I interviewed for a job in a male-dominated workplace and still allowed them to tell me they were concerned about my ability to 'stand up' to some of the 'strong personalities' they had. Not that I would have wanted to work somewhere where withstanding aggression was an essential skill.
Has anybody had any experience of not challenging a question or remark at the time and later wishing you had?
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Anybody not challenged something and later wished they had?
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sniffle12 · 18/03/2017 10:14
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