Apologies if I've used the word gender wrong, I see people pulling each other up on here all the time over it and I'm still not sure whether it's 'right' or not. I'm using the Google definition of 'the state of being male or female (typically used with reference to social and cultural differences rather than biological ones)', as I have no idea what's going on in the underpants of most of my clients and frankly don't care to! I'll happily go by whatever they present themselves as.
ANYWAY, after that preamble: do you find that you refer to equally qualified clients differently depending on whether you perceive them as male or female?
We deal with academic researchers in manuscript and congress material preparation, mostly by email so there's no 1:1 contact per se. I find that when discussing clients with my colleagues, I'll refer to Professor John Smith as Prof Smith (or Dr Smith) but will refer to Professor Jane Evans as simply Jane. This is independent of how much contact I've had with them or how I feel about them personally (some are lovely, some are arses as in all lines of work).
I've been doing this for several years and have only just realised it seems pretty normal for my workplace (which is gender-balanced and seems fully on board with women being intellectually equal to men, given the highly technical nature of the job we do).
I'm feeling like I need to have my Feminist badge rescinded must stop calling Prof Evans Jane if I'm not going to call Prof Smith John!!
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Do you ever find that you refer to clients differently based on their perceived gender?
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LaContessaDiPlump · 06/05/2016 09:48
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