Out with friends yesterday and I comment that I am doing 1 day fast a week. I have done this for a long time and as a particularly windy person feel it helps maintains my digestion and keep painful bloating at bay. I didn't initially explain my reasons, just noted that tomorrow I am looking forward to fasting.
Friend comments 'oh babe, you do know you don't need to don't you? You look great as you are'
Irritated me. Why? I think because she assumed I was having body confidence issues and was doing it for weight loss. Also the general tendency to comment on diet and weight which I hate.
I feel this is a feminist issue and I struggle with the tide of weight related comments. Saying I don't need to is very patronising as she has no idea if why I may find a fast cleansing.
Help me understand why I feel like this please! So irritated by it and can't articulate why
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CheesyBadger · 17/09/2014 11:41
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