A lovely male friend and I were talking today about our girls growing up and our fears and worries. We started to talk about clothing and I commented that I would be happy for my DD to go out in revealing clothes as a teenager if that's what she wanted. He tried to argue with me but I sort of backed him into a corner where his only option would be to admit that he would be banning his DD from wearing revealing clothes as that could lead to her being attacked, ie, what a woman wears plays a role in rape/sexual assault.
I think it hit home for him when I said "who would she be hurting by wearing these clothes? What crime would she commit? So why should she be the one restricted and not the criminals?"
I said, "If restricting people and keeping them at home prevents rape then it should be boys who are restricted and kept at home as they are the rapists." His response was "Yes, you're right. It's shit."
And then I felt a little bad. But I got through to him. And hopefully it will have an impact on his daughter.
MN helped me to crystallise my views on this.
So thank you.
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