Sitting on the beach with BIL and a cousin (let's call him Steve). Both men in their 40s. 5 DC around, including BIL's 3 sons aged 9, 6, 3.
BIL nudges Steve and sort of leers at a woman out of my sight line and says "Oi, what do you think to those? Are they real do you reckon?" (Obviously referring to a stranger's breasts.)
I stare into the middle distance stonily.
BIL goes again: So, what do you think? Are they real? Do you reckon they are real?
I say, 'you are not very subtle, you know' and walk down to the sea. He calls after me: 'Check them out, Greythorne! Do you think they are real?'
Finally, I walk back and say, 'you are showing a very bad example to your three boys. What you are doing is objectifying women and showing your boys it is ok. You are also sexualising a family day on the beach.'
Guess what? I have now been labelled a nag and humorless.
Did I do the wrong thing?
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Did I do the wrong thing? My blood boiled and I called my BIL out......
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Greythorne · 20/07/2013 15:19
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