I wear makeup and nail varnish because I feel better when I do. I wear it for myself and no one else.
Occasionally when I've asked mil to babysit when shes turned up I've still been getting ready. Dd1 is almost 2 and likes to copy, so occasionally I've pretended to put my makeup on her or have done her nails. I'm very clear (to mil mainly) that when they say things to dd like 'much prettyer now' etc its completely unacceptable.
Mil has asked if she can buy dd1 some make up of her own for her birthday. Initially I said hell NO. Mil asked how its any diffrent and I didn't have an answer. I'm now wavering and can't work out how i feel.
On one hand I don't want my baby believing make up makes her pretty and she has to wear it to be 'normal' on the other hand am I teaching her that by wearing it?
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addictedisback · 05/10/2012 10:07
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