Two issues have made me think about feminism in the last week. They may seem unrelated, but I actually think they are part of the same problem.
First up, gay marriage.
The second item being the case of the husband accused of raping his wife on their wedding night.
At first they seem unconnected, however, I think they are linked. Please allow me to explain:
Gay marriage sounds fair on first examination, but is it really? Are we not just extending the notion of conjugal rights -after all, marriage can be voided through non-consummation and adultery a reason for divorce to another group of people?
The man was cleared; make of that what you will. But comments underneath the story ranged from: 'men have right to sex on wedding night'.
By continuing with marriage and its intrinsic conjugal element, aren't we just encouraging this sort of crap?
I know that rape in marriage is illegal, but the general consensus seems to be that men are entitled to sex on wedding night. Is this a good thing?
My solution would be to turn the gay marriage thing on its head and gain true equality by offering civil partnerships to all.
What do you all think?
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Shouldn't we just do away with marriage?
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levington · 09/05/2012 09:49
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