OK, despite the fact I don't speak to my ex and his parents any more, I'm still close to his step sister and her daughter and speak regularly to them. Recently, my ex's niece has started becoming very self conscious and convinced she's "fat" and "ugly", something which isn't helped by DS's grandfather, who continues to point out that she's "chubby" (She's 14 and a size 10, so his comments hardly stand, IMO - but regardless, why reinforce the message that women are supposed to be slim?) and countless bullies at school.
So, hw do we help her with her self esteem? Her mum is stuck for ideas, and between her efforts, and the efforts of other relatives, we're struggling to get her to accept that she is an intelligent, beautiful, funny and sweet young lady, not this "ugly" person she seems to think she is. Any ideas?
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How to help my ex's niece with self esteem?
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DontCallMeFrothyDragon · 19/09/2011 10:01
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