Hi, looking for impartial advice.
My 2 year old son is currently going through chemotherapy and is due his last round next week. However, my friend got engaged last year and asked me to be her bridesmaid for her wedding which was supposed to be next year and I was thrilled when she asked me but now her fiance' s health has deteriorated and they have moved the wedding up to the week after my son's last chemotherapy. I don't feel like I can mentally cope with being her bridesmaid and I told her this when she was organising it for this soon but she planned me in anyways. I haven't left my son for that long before for a whole day and he will still be going through sickness and I'm stresses enough with getting the results of his last scans to see if he will be in remission but I don't know if she will just think I'm horrible for telling her I can't be there for the wedding. I would still go to the evening thing for a couple of hours just not the full day.
Also I am her only bridesmaid so if I said no at this point she may not have time to ask anyone else which is stressing me even further.
Thanks.
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Sunshinesmile123 · 13/08/2018 10:04
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