I realise this is going to be a difficult thing to ask as no one personally knows my DS and his quirks, but I was wondering if anyone can think of any other adjustments I might need to make to our day to ensure that everyone has as good a day as possible! Fwiw he is severely autistic, he'll be 12 at the time of the wedding.
Thoughts:
I really want to have candles/balloons as decorations at the venue but DS has a worrying love of fire so we're going to have to have those LED candles instead.
He also loves balloons and will probably try and steal any that arent tied down so I'm thinking of making a small bunch just for him that I'll give him as he walks in to distract him from all the others!
Flowers, he quite likes ripping the petals off (for some reason) so I think we'll have to have artificial ones to stop him ruining them. Ditto paper stuff, I want to make some paper hearts/bunting/pinwheels etc but will have to laminate them to stop him tearing them.
He will have his tablet/headphones etc to use as that is generally his favourite thing and keeps him calm and happy. I've shown him a picture of my dress and when I have some I'll do the same with the venue and other stuff so he'll have an idea of what to expect on the day and build up to it.
I can't think of anything else that we might have to do differently, anyone have any ideas or tips?
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sharkirasharkira · 17/06/2018 19:23
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