I have put off planning a wedding for years because we are not used to hosting things and we are both quite shy, so the whole idea scares us. We just don't know what to do for our day.
We finally have a date in mind, and want a small and simple wedding. So far we plan to get married in the registry office around late morning time, and then go to a local restaurant/bistro and have a meal. We plan to have between 20-30 guests. And then we will all go home (we don't want an evening do).
But I am struggling to work out timings and what (if anything) to do in between the ceremony and the meal. Say the ceremony finishes at midday and the restaurant is a 10 min drive/20 min walk away - should we just tell the venue we will be there for 12.30pm? Or I am also thinking of having a photographer for half an hour or so after the registry office (do they even tend to offer small and cheap deals?) but what do I do for the guests around this time? I could take some fizz and glasses and serve them whilst people are milling around and some M&S canapes maybe (our two dc could serve them out), and then go on to the restaurant for around 1pm - does this sound like a good idea?
I suppose I am asking for any ideas to make the day a bit more special and weddingy, and some reasurrance that what I am planning sounds okay.
Maybe some stories of your small weddings and what worked well would help? I am so nervous about it all. We don't have much money so am trying to make it as cheap as possible, whilst still wanting it to be a bit special too of course. Any stories/ideas/reassurance would be much appreciated. Thank you!
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wonderwoo · 28/03/2018 16:38
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