Hi,
I am looking for some advice please ladies & gents.
When my best friend gets married next year I will be 36 weeks pregnant and I will be 33 weeks pregnant at her hen party.
For her hen party she is looking to go to a cottage for 3 nights, 2.5 hours away from my house. I don’t know what to do about going? I really want to go but I am a bit worried at how far along pregnant I will be.
The plan is to stay in the cottage one night, one night go into the local city for drinks and one day have a spa day. I just don’t know it is sensible to go. There is talk of getting a mini bus to the cottage but I think i would rather drive myself in case something happens. Only thing is if i did go into labour or needed assistance, we only own one car so my hubby couldn’t come and get me.
I also believe that pregnant ladies can’t really do spa days so I feel if i went there isn’t much I could do.
I feel really confused and frustrated by what to do. I really don’t want to let her down.
It would have been easier if the cottage was closer to home but I don’t want her changing plans for me.
Also, with me being 36 weeks pregnant at her wedding and being chief bridesmaid I don’t know whether to suggest I stand down as I won’t be able to help out much.
In a real dilemma so any advice most welcome :)
I might just be being a tad paranoid and it’s all ifs and buts but again advice welcome :)
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Treehouse413 · 08/10/2017 14:49
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