Hi everyone!
Sorry this will be long!
Looking for opinions as to whether a new horse is a good idea...in other words someone put me off! :-)
I have owned and ridden all of my life so I'm not new however roughly 7 years ago I bought a horse which was completley unsuitable. I persevered with him until 2 years ago in which he injured me badly and I sold him to a very experienced rider who loves him to bits. With hindsight I should never have bought him and he crushed my confidence.
Since selling him I have been petrified of riding. I have not been near a horse in over a year and the thought of riding would make me panic.
A few months ago I started lessons with a push from my OH (who was sick of my moping!) and my step mother also came with me as she used to ride and owned a horse before children. I am absolutely loving it. I feel more confident than I have in years and I'm starting to want to ride all the time again. For the first time in 5 years I'm not terrified!
My step mother would really like to get a horse to share and I am considering it in 6 months or so if I am still enjoying it as much however I'm not sure whether i should just stick to riding!
We both work opposite shifts (ie, her nights while I do days or long shifts) and we would spilt the cost 50:50. I have shared a horse before so I'm not worried about this as I do work a lot of weekends and we shared riding duties with my last horse so I don't forsee arguments. Also we are on the same wavelength horsey wise, and have different riding interests- I like showing while her hacking.
We would keep the horse at the riding school livery (which is actually cheaper than lessons!)
I am just worried if I get my own horse again my confidence will be taken away and I will regret it
I do enjoy the horseless freedom but I miss the mornings and even mucking out! I also miss being able to do what I want when I want.
Can anyone see the flaws in my plan?
I don't want to jump into anything but I feel obsessed with horsey ads at the moment!!
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Greyhorses · 07/04/2014 07:16
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