Bear with me. This could be a bit long. I have not been well this year. Suffering from depression and very stressed. Have taken some time off. First time I have taken time of any significance (apart from maternity leave 11 years ago) in the 14 years I have been working at this school. Some parents have been very difficult about me taking time and I have had lots of hassle and criticisms from some quarters, which has not helped my mental health at all. I have a TA who is the grandmother of one of my class. Her daughter is a parent who is increasing my stress. The TA has been with me for 6 years. She started great but in recent years has become interfering, undermining and reluctant to do work that she considers 'beneath her'. Drives me a bit mad, but I try to be patient . I have heard from a reliable source that she is constantly making comments about me to anyone who will listen. Along the lines of 'harp should be over this all by now' and 'it's the children I worry about' and 'that class needs some stability' . Lots of whispering about me to relieving teachers and parents.
Now, I am thoroughly tired of it all and I have concluded that the toxicity of the environment isn't helping me. I used to love my job at this school, but no longer. So I decided to apply for some new jobs and I have been offered three! Without wanting to blow my own trumpet, they were falling over themselves to offer me something. I feel really positive about this and think it could well be a turning point for me. I have accepted a job at a lovely new school with a great reputation and the loveliest children. And I have been given a leadership role. Do I confront my TA at some point or at least let her know that I am well aware of what she has been saying and of how unhelpful this has been to me? Whenever I think about her whispering and undermining I feel so cross.
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southernharp · 26/09/2017 09:37
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