I have a 4 year old half Siamese, neutered male cat. We also have a 6 month old male kitten who was neutered on Thursday. Last Friday we lost our beautiful dog in a horrible freak accident which our old cat witnessed.
Until this week our older cat has tolerated the kitten very well. They play daily and kitten knows when not to push it. They sleep near each other and eat together.
However, this week our older cat has become more distant, wants to be out more and very intolerant of the kitten. The kitten is actually being very good and not doing anything at all which warrants swiping and hissing.
Older cat stayed out all night on Thursday and when I found him in the morning he scratched me quite badly when I picked him up. He’s never scratched us. It’s so unusual.
When he comes back he gets lots of love, treats etc but he almost immediately wants to go out again, even in the rain which is definitely not like him!
He did sleep on my bed again all night last night but kitten sleeps in with my son so nowhere around.
He’s also seen us very sad this week after losing our lovely dog.
I don’t know what is wrong. I just want our old Alby back 😔 I have plugged in a felliway and put some drops on Alby which are meant to calm.
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What’s wrong? Is he grieving?
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Hmm12121 · 25/07/2020 14:08
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