My daughter is 5, will turn 6 in a couple of months and would love a pet. She cried to me this morning about it. As much as my heart melts, I need to be practical and said before agreeing. She would ideally love a dog but I’ve made it clear this cannot happen as we do not have a lifestyle conducive with doggie needs. She would also like either a guinea pig (which means 2 guinea pigs) or a cat. I have owned a cat before so am swinging towards a feline friend. I just don’t know if we are in a position to offer a suitable home so would appreciate any advice.
Situation is that I work shifts, a combination of days and nights, whereby 3 times a week I’ll be away for 14 hours.
I am separated from my daughters father. She stays with him when I am at work and he himself works 8 to 5, Monday to Friday.
My house has a cat flap, I live in a village/quiet area and I would therefore envision an indoor/outdoor cat.
My ex had said he would be agreeable to taking the cat with him and my daughter when she stays with him. He, however, lives in an apartment, therefore no outside space for the cat, so not sure how agreeable the cat would be. Also, if he were to call by to collect the cat while I’m at work, there is no guarantee the cat would even be here if I’ve let it out. I wouldn’t feel right leaving it locked in while I’m at work.
As you can see, my situation is not ideal. I know I should not get a pet, just because my daughter wants one. However, I think it would benefit her greatly to have a little furry companion if my life could facilitate one.
Any views? Thanks in advance.
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AllTheFours44 · 30/05/2019 10:57
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