My 8yr old cat passed on Saturday and I'm very upset - which is only to be expected. He had a tummy issue that I'd been to the vets with twice recently but unfortunately it wasn't spotted. On Friday night he seemed out of sorts and acting strange but you know how brave cats can be. I spent the night looking after him and making him comfy. First thing Saturday morning I brought him to vets and he died in the waiting room. The vets were brilliant and the wee thing's body will be taken tommorow and I'll get a casket for the ashes next week for DD.
But I'm heartbroken, still in shock as I was alone when all this happened DD and OH were away. Im walking around trying not to cry, clearing up his bed, toys etc and I never realised I spent so much time talking and being with him (mad cat lady personified). He was such a part of my life. I would dearly love another cat but I know I should wait.
I was wondering if anyone has any experience of this and any words of encouragement ? I've never had a pet for so long pass away and by God it hurts 
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Primamadonna · 16/10/2017 18:33
It’s such a shock when they go suddenly like that. 
I lost my beloved cat two weeks ago and picked up a kitten from CPL on Saturday. (I would have liked an older cat but they were not so keen given my home set up).
There’s no right or wrong with grief and you need to do what works for you.
My newbie could never replace my gorgeous girl but the distraction eases the pain considerably.
Bless you. Unless you've loved a pet you just don't understand how they get under your skin. We had our first puss for nearly 20 years. It's tough indeed when they go, however old or young.
Very sorry OP. But at least she died knowing you were just next to her and had a night with you all to herself.
RIP dear puss. So sorry for your loss, what a horrible shock.
@therewere5 and thank you all so much for your replies, I feel comforted already. Its nice just being able to talk about it with fellow kitty lovers. I'd love a cat tommorow but must give it a week or two.
Oh no @Wolfiefan ! I have always had cats so I know what I'm getting into. I also know I'm grieving and to give it a while. Nothing will replace him, this would be a new cat and I need to have my head in the right place first - only fair to the new kitty.
@tehmina - so sorry for your sadness
So sorry for your loss. It's a very sad time for you. We all know there's room for another little puss in our lives and that they don't take the place of the ones we've loved and lost. We just can't do without them. Take your time to decide what you want to do
I have some lovely memories, thanks for reminding me, sometimes when you're sad you forget these important things.
A very memorable fella and a true character, a wee ball of ragged fluff who thought he was the bee's knees and world leader/overlord for 8 years 
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