We had a cat (lovely tortoiseshell who came to us as a kitten with knock on effects of severe early trauma) when I was growing up, and I had a cat with epilepsy (and one dog, and then 7 dogs...) when I lived overseas and I'd love to have another cat.
I am pretty sure my DCs would be enchanted by the idea (they are 5 and 3). We have just moved to a new larger house which has less carpet and has a ready made cat flap.
We would be more likely to consider an adult cat (I thought about a kitten when I was on leave with DC1 and then again with DC2 but we are both out at work at least 2 days a week so it's not really fair on a kitten I know - I think when we had ours my DM was out at work but things have rather moved on since then I know).
But DH is somewhat allergic. He tends to become wheezy/headachy when we visit cats.
I am not sure there is a solution to this problem! We are part time cat feeders to next door's cat - but we can't really become cat aunties/regular visitors most of the time as they also have vvvvv large dogs and my DC2 is smaller than them (as is frankly my DC1 and possibly me also) and terrified. (Dogs go on dog holiday when NDNs go away).
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drspouse · 28/06/2017 14:15
We grew up with cats. One of them I was allergic to but only when I'd handled him a lot and then hadn't washed my hands (this was teenage years).
Now we have two cats, I have met loads others and I'm not allergic in the slightest 
It's possible (I think) to be allergic to a particular cat sometimes rather then all cats in general.
Has your dh had an allergic reaction as an adult and his bad was it? In my case, my eyes and face puffed up and eyes were unbearably itchy for a few hours but I touch my face a lot, rub my eyes a lot etc so that was no surprise. If your dh is allergic just coming into general contact with cats and wheezing etc that might be different.
We also have a no cats on bed policy but that's for hygiene and to be fair the older cat who is very clean sometimes breaks that rule the younger cat is not as good at cleaning itself so it's a no-no totally.
We got a Siberian in exactly the same circumstances. The breeder let us do an 'allergy sitting' where we cuddled a cat for an hour or two to see if DH had a reaction. As he didn't, BogCat took up residence.
He is absolutely gorgeous and brilliant with the kids, especially DS who has a lot of needs and ASD, and really challenging behaviour with humans.
I understand DH reluctance, and have always had rescue moggies before BogCat, but for anyone in our circumstances I would really, really recommend investigating.
Here is BogCat to tempt you
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