Could do with some thoughts/advice about this. We have two rescue cats, both aged around 3 and a half, they've always been together and have been with us for 5 weeks now. We've started to let them out in the day when we're around. Boy cat is very keen to explore, has been going off for anything between 30 mins to an hour before coming back in again. Girl cat is much less confident but has done a bit of exploring, probably for only 10 mins or so at a time before she comes back.
Girl cat has stared to attack boy cat when he comes back in. Not play fighting, proper hissing/jumping on him. She's much smaller and he doesn't seem overly bothered or physically hurt, but obviously its not ideal. She has also on a couple of occasions done a wee on the back doormat while he's been gone.
Do you think she feels threatened? Just generally anxious? We don't think they've had much access to the big outdoors before, and we do have a large garden so maybe its all a bit overwhelming for her?
Not sure how to move forward.
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Girl cat attacking boy cat when he's been outside
PosiePootlePerkins · 07/02/2017 18:08
Probably because he smells different when he returns from his puruse of his new estate
. I have 3 boy cats and a girl, she is the youngest but will happily put them in their place as they come in the cat flap. She will settle, maybe just telling him off for leaving her.
Yes that all makes sense, thank you! Silly cats.
Aaagh, further problems! Trying to get them to use the cat flap (they don't seem to have a clue so I'm guessing they've never used one) managed to gently 'persuade' boy cat to go through and he went out for a bit. When he came back, he came straight to the cat flap, I opened it a bit for him in the hopes he'd push it a bit with his head. Girl cat suddenly charged through the flap and chased him off! Poor boy wouldn't come back for an hour, I must have sounded like the crazy cat lady calling him, eventually shaking the dreamies packet did the trick, but he wouldn't come in until I shut her in the lounge. Even then she had a go at him when I reunited them. I wonder if she sees him as an intruder? She's known him her whole life, silly cat!
I have no idea how I am going to resolve this. I would love for them to just come and go freely during the day but that seems like mission impossible right now.
Am at home all next week for half term, any bright ideas to help improve things?
Thanks squeak I have done both, she still goes for him
Thanks for the reply. I will keep persevering.
I hadn't thought of feliway but yes that's a good idea thank you. She's not stressed at all in the house, I just think the whole venturing outside is freaking her out a bit and she's taking it out on him, almost as if he's an intruder
I appreciate your replies and will keep persevering.
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