I'm upset about this and need the advice of some fellow cat owners please!
We have some neighbours who own cats themselves and are friendly, they always chat when we see them. They've taken a big liking to our cats, totally understandable because they're a beautiful pair, and were kittens when we got them (they're nearly 1 now!) The neighbours often talk to us about our cats. The last few times we spoke they said Boycat has been going into their house and eating the food they leave down for their cats. They said it like it's funny, and they clearly like him, so I don't think they mind - in fact I think they probably encourage it. This in itself bothers me (we don't let other cats in, and if they did get in we'd never let them eat our cats' food). But what has really got to me is that they've asked a couple of times "have you tried giving them Dreamies? They LOVE Dreamies". At first I gave them the benefit of the doubt and thought they just meant their own cats, but last time the neighbour said "our cats love them.. and Boycat does too". I'm really upset, I realise I may well be overreacting, but I feel like they've crossed a line. Feeding someone else's cat is bad enough but giving them treats is really cheeky. Sometimes Boycat has liquid poo (recently we noticed blood in it) - it could be a coincidence but I do wonder if it might be because he's eating crap other food at the neighbours' house.
AIBU or are they taking liberties? I understand cats will do what they want - and ours do like playing in their garden apparently - but I think letting our cats eat their food, and giving them treats, is a step too far.
I want to discuss it with them but don't want to fall out over it. As I said they're friendly, probably the friendliest neighbours we have. Now I'm suspicious about their motives which is probably ridiculous!
Any suggestions about what I can say to them without creating an issue?
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NameChange30 · 01/08/2015 09:38
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