They are just over 18 months old, male and female from the same litter, both neutered. The male prefers to spend most of his time outdoors, day and night, coming in for cuddles and food on his own terms. The female is a real homebody, but a complete livewire. She is also outdoors all day while we are at work, and at night during the warmer months (her choice). With winter approaching, I'm thinking of trying to get at least the female to stay in overnight.
We spent the first winter that we had them keeping them in overnight and it was just impossible. The male gets very unhappy from about 4am, until somebody lets him out. The female will settle for a good few hours but from about 5am believes the whole world should be awake and preferably feeding/playing with her. She has honed the eyeball-headbutt manoeuvre to perfection.
Shutting them downstairs is a non-starter. They wail the house down and hammer nine kinds of hell out of the doors, keeping us (and probably our neighbours) awake in the process.
Is it worth persevering? Will they eventually settle? Or should I just accept that they are outdoor creatures with different body clocks to humans. I hate the idea of them being out in all weathers but we have no option for a catflap - not that having one would help the female settle for the whole night.
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ControlGeek · 03/10/2013 22:01
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