Hi. Please bare with me. This is weighing on my mind an awful lot at the moment. We have an old dog. He's 14 and a half, has lived a long happy and mainly healthy life. The last 6 months have been tough. He has arthritis and has slowed down very quickly and has been losing condition since the end of last summer. He's still happy, enjoys the walks he can manage, his meals, cuddles etc. But I know deep in my heart he is approaching the end and it could happen in a couple of weeks or months. He is my rock and now I have to be strong and do the best for him.
Whilst I think when the time comes, I will cope with what has to be done in my own way... Being who he needs me to be, I am worrying about the kids. They are 4 and 7 and he's very close to our 7 Yr old. We talk about him being old and unwell, and death and the vets etc. But when the time comes how do I manage the end with the kids. Does anyone have any advice that could help me feel a big stronger in dealing with this. The 4 year old is very matter of fact, but with the older one, do I tell him in advance the time has come. Doesn't seem right to send him off to school knowing. How do I make sure he has been able to say goodbye without upsetting him unnecessarily so. I guess I tell him after? Dh will help but... I'm completely stuck. It's like a big mental block I'm trying to unpick. I'm hope i'm not being stupid and don't mean to upset anyone. Can anyone provide any pearls of wisdom? I'd like to think I have a few months before we go through this but I know it could change quickly. We have another dog who will help us as a family, but this old boy is my no 1. Predates the husband, kids... All of it... Xx
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mrsdiddlydoo · 20/01/2020 09:56
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