I have had my 3 year old JRT cross rescue for a few weeks. I’ve had lots of ups and downs as he’s basically untrained (apart from toileting) and has separation anxiety (I’ve written a few threads of here recently!) and I was extremely naive as to how much work and stress it would as well as looking after a toddler. Anyway the last week or so I’ve felt quite positive but i had a bad afternoon and just need to some advice.
Because ddog has separation anxiety and I can’t go out at the moment, we are having people come to us (so I don’t go crazy and DS has company as this has been a big change to our usual lifestyle). This afternoon my friend and her two girls came over. I don’t know if it was because it was particularly boisterous with the 3 children here but ddog couldn’t settle, he was wandering around, picking up DS toys (small plastic things) and destroyed a couple when I wasn’t looking. He also started chewing a chair leg and an ottoman leg (which he’s never done before). I tried putting him in his bed with a kong but because he is untrained he doesn’t know ‘stay’ and wouldn’t settle. I tried separating him from the children via the kitchen stair gate (with me and friend in kitchen) but he was barking to be let out to them. Eventually when they had dinner and it was a bit calmer he got into his bed but was chewing his feet. I know they can do this when bored or stressed. When everyone left he immediately got up on the sofa with me and settled.
I had taken him for a 50 min walk this am, we did some training in the garden, played with toys, I scattered some treats in the garden for him to find and I groomed him. So I think he had enough stimulation not to be bored or is that not enough? Also we did give him attention when everyone was here but was like he just wanted more and more.
I am thinking that it was actually all too much for ddog and too early days to have that level of activity in his new home (although we have had them here before as well as other friends and children) so I won’t be doing it again in a hurry, but why was he biting the furniture? I have so many worries about it all and now I’m thinking when we eventually start leaving him (months down the line probably) we don’t just has to worry about him barking but chewing as well.
Sorry for the long post. There will probably be more to come as the weeks go on as well! 🙈
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Need advice- rescue dog and I’m stressed!
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LoveUsed · 18/10/2019 20:43
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