Hello, I'll try to give as much info as possible without waffling.
SIL has 4yo male (neutered) beagle. when they first got him they lived in a flat and now freely admit were young and naive to how much work a beagle can be.
He's destroyed four sofas, floor, skirting boards, doors etc. He's extremely clever but not particularly obedient. BIL and SIL have no children and have adjusted to accommodate him, ie because he's terrible around food they put him away to eat when they eat, he sleeps on their bed. They've made a gated space under the stairs to house him while they work all day so he won't destroy their house. Now they have a house they like to host more but he's a handful, snatching food off counters, licking drinks, jumping and knocking kids over.
He bit DHs arm a few months back. DH was locked out and he went there to get our spare key was siting on sofa having a chat and dog walked along sofa towards DH, so DH lifted arm to stroke him and he got hold of DHs arm, SIL jumped up to get him off and dog snapped at her.
It came up in conversation with MIL, where she told us that he had bitten her too, MIL says it was her fault as she was leading him by his collar into his gated area and he doesn't like being touched on the collar, she was there to let workmen in and he was getting in their way.
DH has said he's not happy having kids round there, however, they are hosting Christmas (and have said they won't board him, they usually do at events so they can relax). Since the incident they've had some advice and have worked with him on his resource guarding, ie he's no longer sleeping on their bed, only on sofa when invited etc. so we agreed to go around in the lead up to Christmas and see his behaviour around kids and get kids to do some treat training and fetch to get a bond going. We went today and unfortunately he wasn't great, he was barking at kids and standing stiff near them keeping watch on them, wasn't interested in distractions etc was alert and on guard. A few times when SIL/ BIL redirected him he mouthed at them in protest, we were all on edge.
Does anyone have any advice on how I can work with my in laws to help settle the dog around our kids.
I should say we have a dog, so my kids do know not to touch face, tails, don't take treats from dogs etc. Today they were playing with their toy cars and wrestlers, not interacting with him.
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HolaWeenie · 10/11/2018 20:04
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