Ok long post but I don’t want to drip feed.
5 years ago we got a miniature labradoodle. The decision was well thought through, we spent a long time researching before we got her and our lifestyle suited a dog as I’m home all day and we’ve always been outdoorsy.
Not long after we got her my mum got diagnosed with cancer. She had already offered to have the dog when we were away or on long days out so this was obviously no longer an option but we had committed to the dog so planned to just work around it and use kennels etc where needed.
Over the next three years my mum passed away, myself and both children were diagnosed with ehlers danlos syndrome and then in the last 2 years both children have also been diagnosed with ASD. All in all a lot has happened and we are in a completely different place to where we originally saw ourselves. We pictured camping/walking holidays with the kids and dog and active weekends spent in the woods. My son has a lot of issues with pain and fatigue when walking and I have developed some complex issues in my feet so the amount she has been walked has progressively reduced and reduced. My little boy also has a lot of anxiety over leaving the house so this has also had a large impact on how much she can be walked. Both children have sleep issues so are up very late in the evening which means it is also awkward for my husband to find the time to walk her.
She has started to get quite destructive. Understandably as she is an intelligent breed and really needs much more stimulation than she is managing to get at present. Ultimately I don’t think she is happy and I feel she is developing some behavioural issues which are completely our fault. I am worried if we don’t act soon she will be ruined which would have a negative impact on her options for rehoming if we had to reach that point.
We have considered a dog walker but simply can’t justify the costs. I am a full time carer and we are on a single income.
Can anyone talk to me about borrow my doggy? Is there any other charities etc that could help with walking her? Is there any other options we haven’t considered?
Sadly atm it feels like rehoming is our only option but I want to check we haven’t missed other options.
Thanks for listening and please please don’t flame me. We love our crazy little doodle but I feel like we are currently letting her down hugely :(
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Curious2468 · 23/10/2018 20:22
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