We have two dogs, both collies. DDog 1 is almost 4 and DDog 2 is just over a year. We got DDog 2 as a companion for DDog1. H came from the same breeder as Ddog1. We had no problems with the first, she socialised easily, was trained easily and settled in without problems. From the start seh spnd a couple of hours alone every day, and went out with a dog walked on the days I am at work. We took advice and only got Ddog 2 when she was almost 3 and we were very happy with her training etc.
They get on well, and from that perspective it has been a success, but Ddog 2 has been a completely different dog to manage. Underneath I think hes very anxious and this manifests in resource guarding, aggression to other dogs, chewing everything, barking excessively (driving neighbours mad). Weve been to the Vet, had behaviourists in, worked with him and eventually send him for residential training in July / August. He came back much better, but sadly has relapsed. We stopped the dog walker we had, and found someone who walks just our dogs, but he because aggressive again with a dog in the park this week.
I dont think we can provide what he needs, I love him to bits, but I can see that hes stressed and not happy. His basic training / recall is very good (at least for me) but hes so anxious. I've tried adaptil, some other homeopathic tablets from the Vet, hes been chemically castrated to see f that would help ( and it wears off so that if it didn't its not a permanent change)I feel dreadful but Im seriously wondering about trying to rehome him in a house where someone is at home all the time...has anyone had experience of this ?
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lilybetsy · 10/11/2017 18:22
Has the vet suggested medication at all? I've had to use prozac with my whippet puppy for his separation anxiety. He's still somewhat anxious but I can now leave him without the neighbours complaining and before I tried it I was on the verge of returning him to the breeder.
It's interesting that both your dogs have had the same environment and yet turned out so differently. My vet tells me there is a very strong genetic component with anxiety issues so your situation rather proves the point I think.
So sorry you're in this situation and I know how hard it can be. Luckily my boy has no agression or guarding issues and has attended day care successfully. Good luck, 
If it helps, medication hasn't made my boy drowsy at all. He is still full of life and character. If it was stopping him enjoying life I would have stopped it by now.
Caroldeckershair Bluepuppy is currently on two medications. Clonidine and prozac. The aim is to eventually wean him off the clonidine but that's a while off. I'm not in the UK so not sure how much changes things. It hasn't been a cheap exercise but the only other option was to return him to his breeder and an uncertain future 
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