We've just about reached the decision that out 15 yr old Lab is struggling too much to be getting a good quality of life - daily accidents, sickness incidents and weak spine etc meaning he doesn't go out most days now and can't easily get up the step from the kitchen to the garden and often falls over. DD is 5 and we have spent the last few months talking about him being old and the need to enjoy him as long as we can so she aware to a certain extent . We lost the cat before Christmas and because it was sudden DD knew the cat was going back to the vets and wouldn't come back so she got to say good bye and we took some pics with the cat which we later made into a photo book. DH took cat off to vet and I stayed at home with naturally distressed child. She was upset but we talked about it in the coming weeks and she helped scatter the ashes.
Now it's looking like more pre-planned with the dog (which does feel odd but we can't keep hoping he will slip away in his sleep) ; I don't know how to deal with it whether to take him off when she is at school and as usual make her say goodbye to him and then he isn't there when she comes home, but this is then a real shock. Or whether to tell her he is going to the vets as we are not sure he is very well and then tell her when she comes home the Vet couldn't make him better. Or we tell her and she gets to say goodbye before he goes . Also need to plan to take him when she is at school so DH and I can support each other and I don't think it fair to leave her with friends and then pick her up without the dog and the ensuing tears and grief.. But then it won't be easy for her to go to school knowing the dog won't be coming back.
Anyone willing to share ideas of things that worked for them?
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How do you deal with having your dog PTS and telling your DCs?
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WestYorkshireGirl · 16/06/2016 19:15
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