Since the long summer hols after GCSE's my DD has turned in to a different person. She cancelled coming away with us on hols to attend friends events.
Last words from us were "Don't have friends round to the house and keep safe"
When we got back found out she'd had friends in a tent in the front garden and jumped from a bridge in to a river.
Since then she has been with a crowd who spend their time hanging out at various places drinking, having sex and generally making a nuicsance of themselves. She has dyed her hair dark from blonde, had her belly button pierced and wants a tattoo,
She is tormented by a love for a lad who has tried to commit suicide before now, having an on off love hate relationship.
She got a warning from the police when gathered drinking with friends in a park.
She knows we will get this letter from the police and has stayed away at friends houses initially not letting us know where she was one night so we had to do alot of ringing around to trace her.
She is a tormented sole who is constantly angry, partly because of love for this boy, partly because she ended up not getting to do the subjects she wanted at A Level, and partly because of this constant danger, thrill seeking behaviour.
I tried to tell her that if she couldnt talk to us to seek counselling from somewhere/one else and handed over a leaflet handed out at school but she tore this up.
What do we do - where do we begin?
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DD 16 gone off the rails
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Evaprob · 16/09/2009 22:24
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