My eldest SS is a few months away from 18. He's on summer holidays from college and works a few hours a week. Since breaking up for the summer he has been going to bed on average at 4am. He sits in his room surfing the net, playing games, music etc. We have just about got an agreement whereby he turns all the sounds off when we go to bed, but the noise still disturbs me.
Last night he went to the loo at about 4am, switching all the lights on and banging the doors which woke me up. All the lights went off and I thought he had gone to bed. I then heard someone leave the house. I got up to look and thought it must have been the cats on the stairs and banging into the door.
I couldn't sleep so went and watched the olympics. Eldest SS came in at 5.30am. I asked where he had been and he said he had been out for a cigarette. I queried the hour and a half cigarette. He said he had met a friend.
Sorry this has turned into rather a long post. I don't know what to do. Our relationship is not particularly great. His Dad, my OH, doesn't think there is anything wrong with it and we should let him do as he wants.
I'm stressed because I can't sleep because of the noise or wondering where he is. The last few nights have seen some car crime in the area, not that I think he is involved, but he is still making himself a target wandering about at that time of night.
What can I do? Any advice gratefully received.
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dinasaw · 20/08/2008 13:27
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