This is kind of an extension to a message that I posted under 'Other Subjects'. DH's teenage son has moved in with us for a while after experiencing some problems at home, and it looks like he will probably be here for about 18 months. It's been a while since I was a teenager and even though I remember bits and pieces, I know it's like living in a whole other world. I remember feeling like I couldn't stand either of my parents and went through a stage of not talking to them much or telling them anything.
Anyway, ss (stepson) is basically ok and his manner is quite pleasant, but I notice that every now and again he gets this attitude which seems to come out of nowhere. It's hard not being his mother to begin with, but when he does this I feel pretty p**d off because I don't know where it's coming from. The only way I can explain it is that he comes out with sarcastic or very blunt answers to questions, or he will make comments that leave you wondering whether they're meant to be offensive or not. Tonight he was complaining about having to do a particular chore but his attitude seemed worse than usual. The rest of the time he's quite ok but I must admit to my stress levels going up because our household was much more peaceful before! Anyway enough said, I just don't know whether it's best to leave it alone or to say something to him when it happens. Most of the 'dialogue' tends to happen between dh and ss, but I just get this vibe that something is making him react like that. Or is it just bloody hormones or what?!! I feel like I can't relax and I'm hoping it doesn't continue for too long.
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Holly02 · 21/01/2003 09:45
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