Hi.
I've been away a while. Wish every one a happy new year.
I am not sure if I mentioned this last year... seems a long time ago! My DS - 14 (just) went out one evening, ended up in hospital - paraletic! On a drip etc.. I had to phone around hospitals to find him... eventually I did. He doesn't seem the "type" to just go off and buy a bottle and get pissed... but he did... I never got to the bottom of it... I don't suppose I ever will. Thankfully he is safe.
The other night he came home in a state. Tried to tell me he was tired, staggered upstairs and redecorated the bathroom and his bed. He had gone and bought a bottle of cider. Yeah, that cheap sick provoking gas. YUK!! I cleaned him up, or ordered him in the shower (felt like putting it on cold for him) got him into bed - gave him a talking to, listened, tucked him up then I phoned the police. I had to tell them that a local shop was selling alcohol to teenagers under 18! I wouldn't mind, but he doesn't even look 18. He is tall, granted, and big for his age, but he doesn't look 18! WHY do shops allow the parting of alcohol without any sort of ID???
DS wanted to buy me some choc liqueurs for christmas.. just the cheapy ones from somewhere like Lidl, and they wouldn't let him because he was under 18. OK, so why don't ALL shops do this.
There are so many young people hitting the streets with bottles of goodness knows what. At least there should be some sort of ID system put in place, even for us who are over 18! I certainly wouldn't mind having to produce ID if it meant helping kids stay away from alcohol til they are well old enough to remember what it is like to chuck up everywhere and make fools of themselves.
I am at a loss with DS. I know it isn't his decision alone and I don't know what to do about it. He is grounded for at least a month but what does one do about the 'other' kids involved? Do I tell their parents, not knowing what reaction I will get from them? How much do we have to watch our kids, mistrust them?
It is so heart-breaking. I know there is more to the reasons why he did drink. Girls. Well, at least that is what came out when we had a chat. I can't help feeling there is more to it, but how far do I go?
Glad to be back. Hope all are well. Happy landings for 2005.
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jojo38 · 13/01/2005 22:27
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