Hey everyone.
So a little bit of back story, I had my first daughter when I was incredibly young at 17. She is now 13 very soon to be 14 and I just can't even explain our relationship. We have always been incredibly close, we had her younger sister 6 years ago when she was around 7/8 which she did struggle with massively. Luckily me and her dad have stayed together which I know is rare with young pregnancy. Anyway, me and my husband decided whilst it isn't too late we wanted to have just one more baby so we don't regret having another one. So around 2 weeks ago we told the girls and the youngest was absolutely thrilled however my eldest just can not stand me. She won't speak to me or her dad, she wont come out of her room except for dinner where she just sits and doesn't even look at us when we talk to her.
Me and my husband understand it is a massive change and that she is at an awkward age anyway and we have constantly tried to explain to her it's going to be okay and she's going to be the best sister. We have also tried the approach of speaking to her in a more adult like way. But she won't speak and truth being told I don't even think she knows why she is this angry and hurt about the situation. I just want her to be happy and enjoy my pregnancy.
Any advice would really help on how to get her to open up. I am mentally drained from worrying and being angry and upset at her. I don't want her to feel like I am against her but she is putting up such a hard battle! Many thanks x
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Ellbell24 · 03/03/2021 01:42
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