My DD is what is consider a sensible teen. She's been keeping up her HW in lockdown and chatting all hours on her phone to friends. I trust her and let her be. I recently repaired her old iPad and realised her photos were synced. What I saw made me realise I don't know her at all. There are screenshots of snapchats. Screenshots where boys have asked for nudes/sexual references about her body. A 'film' recording a text conversation where she supposedly sends a photo of a positive pregnancy test and a following conversation. I almost died seeing that until I checked her deleted photo history and realised it was something she made up...likely to post. And finally in the deleted photo I found a photo of her in her underwear. I also saw a video of her having her top ears pierced by friends which she has not told me about, and is something I said she could have done next year. Where do I start?? Part of me wants to scare her and say I've been sent or told about that photo so others must know and to find out if she actually sent it to someone. Another part of me just wants to scream at her/cry neither of which will have a desired effect.
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