Hi all,
Yesterday my dd (15)was feeling low and down and was really hormonal and moody and I pandered a bit then left her to get on with it...
Today she is full of the joys and seems back to her old self...
Ok so just had a call from a teacher friend, who advised me that my dd had told other close pals (via snapchat) yesterday that she felt so low that she had suicidal thoughts (they then went to a parent who came to him) ..I think it was more a cry for attention as she was feeling sad away from her friends and struggling to do work and be engaged etc...and wants to feel important or needed in someone's world... she has always suffered with anxiety but not to a massive degree... same teenage girl drama type stuff..
I know sometimes she feels like no one in her group listens to her and they talk over her... and although I sympathise I think at times she is needy and says stupid things as she hasn't quite fitted in anywhere yet..
So, do I talk to her dad, who massively over reacts generally or do I try and address this... I need her to know that she doesn't need to behave like this and this isn't the way to get people to care about you.. but I know this is why she is doing it... as she needs to find her niche and she's not there yet...
Any advice gratefully received
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Meandkids · 24/03/2020 15:19
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