DS aged 14 was diagnosed with ADHD with some Asperger’s traits two years ago. He has been taking Ritalin since and he is a different child. Life was hell with him before, but mainly bearable now. I do worry about him though and hope that he is not on Ritalin forever. He has some symptoms and I don’t know if these are part of his condition or normal or just him. For instance:
Paranoia
He gets quite paranoid when his medication is wearing off. If someone accidentally brushes past him he thinks they have done it on purpose. This is causing terrible problems at school, as he has accused people of stamping on his feet, for instance, when it turns out it was just accidental. It took a long time (and a random CCTV check) for us to realise this.
Speaking in a foreign accent
We always know when his medication has worn off as he speaks in a foreign accent and takes on the mannerisms and habits of this other nationality. He even has a name he calls himself. I must stress, it is not in a mocking racist way. If you met him you would genuinely believe he is of this nationality. He doesn’t seem to be able to control it.
Immaturity
Our eldest DS was babysitting other people’s children at 13 years old. However, our DS with ADHD is 14 years old and would need a babysitter himself. He is incredibly immature, in spite of having the same upbringing as our eldest DS. I still have to take him to school and pick him up, for instance.
No friends
He has absolutely no friends. He is a nice boy, average at school and sport. The feedback from school is that he is annoying to other children. I can see that. They went away on school camp (120 boys) and everyone absolutely refused to share a tent with him. They made one boy share with him, but the boy left the tent after lights out and DS was left alone. There has been some bullying and he has got into a few fights, but the school have dealt with the boys concerned.
However, adults really seem to like him. Our cleaner said he is the nicest, most polite boy she has ever met in her 40 years of cleaning. The school secretary says similar things about him. His teachers mainly really like him, although there are specific lessons where he misbehaves and causes a distraction.
I guess I just want to know if these symptoms are common amongst children with ADHD/Asperger’s. Or even if they are normal for teenage boys. I really worry for him.
Thanks.
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Does anybody else’s ADHD (or NT) child have these symptoms?
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MarieFromStTropez · 08/01/2020 23:59
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