So - DD has finished A levels mid June and has since done zilch basically since then. I have nagged, nagged and nagged about getting a part time summer job, sent her links for vacancies, told her to get her CV up to date (for something to do if nothing else), all fallen on deaf ears. She has her mobile phone paid for, has had quite an abundance of money lately spent on her - haircuts, hair done for prom, clothes for holiday etc (she is coming with us, said she was happy to), does nothing to help around the house off her own back, has to be told firmly to do anything. We don't give pocket money just if she needed it - to be fair she doesn't go out that often and does not drink much at all.
Yesterday I saw an advert for a weekend job and told her to go into the cafe and enquire about it - she flatly refused. I completely had a melt down at her when we got home as she had then taken herself back to her pit. She doesn't get it ! I have now refused to pay for anything else that she asks for.
She is due to go to Uni in September - I honestly can't see her coping with all the independence and guarantee she will be home after 3 weeks at the most. She is driving me mad !
What do I do ? Please help !
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DD age 18 No Motivation or Inclination - Am I Wrong ?
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kalkem72 · 28/07/2019 17:43
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