Ds is nearly 15.
He is a nice kid. No drugs, alcohol, doesn’t go out all hours, has one good friend.
Has just left school, GCSE’s are done.
We also have a younger child. This is where the trouble starts.
He can be mean to younger ds, makes little one distressed and upset.
I separate them, referee them, have had numerous conversations with older ds about leading by example, teaching kindness, being more mature.... over and over and over again.
But it continues.
I have had enough. I’m not having the little one exposed to it any longer.
It came to a head a few days ago. I had to walk away because I was so angry I was frightened of what I would do to him.
This led to me avoiding all contact with ds for 3 days. I actually completely cut myself off from him.
Needing to put things right, I have tried to speak with him. He won’t have it. So I’ve text him, he has replied to this. It seems to be the way of communicating with him at present.
I will actually speak with him when he is ready.
He is withdrawing, says he doesn’t care about anything anymore. This worries me more than anything.
But what can I do to get through to him?
How to move forward?
I’m lost and worried and don’t know how to parent him anymore.
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crosser62 · 03/07/2019 13:29
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