Really worried about my 14yo ds. I recently found out he has been breaking into building sites to climb. He and his friend like to take pics and videos and they follow the parcore you tubers. It is absolutely terrifying to see some of the risks they are taking climbing cranes and scaffolding. Last month he was brought home by the police as somebody had seen them on a site.
Last night I discovered he has also been experimenting with weed and vaping. I went through his snapchat and it is full of pics of weed/joints and videos of him smoking.
I also discovered he is stealing sweets from our local supermarket to sell at school. He even has a price list that he has been sending to friends.
I confronted him this morning and so far punishment is no devices, no pocket money (£10pw), grounded. I've searched his room and didn't find anything.
He doesn't think it is a big deal and thinks I'm over reacting. I'm planning on trying to have an honest chat with him tonight but can see it ending up with me just talking at him as his response to everything is I don't know.
We've had a difficult time the past year or two for lots of reasons and I can only see this getting worse and more dangerous.
Any advice?
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smellycandle · 12/02/2019 12:04
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