OK, so I've been reading a thread about house parties and gate crashers when the parents go away.
My 14.5 yo son don't want to come with us on holiday this year, but he is. He has no say in the matter yet. So when I was talking to my mother about it, she said IN HER OPINION he'd be ok to stay at home next year,and she'd keep an eye on him. He is very mature for his years,.... everyone who knows him always comments on this. He's not a daft lad, not scared of refusing his peers, or just scared of saying NO. ANd I'm not particularly close to my mother, or my birth family. We're just on talking terms after 4 years when they disowned me. THis was cos my 14yo son had a cardiac arrest when he was 10, out of the blue, was diagnosed with a heart condition, which can be fatal. SO of course I went a bit over protective with him when I heard the news. THey disowned me, cos they didn't agree with me wrapping him in cotton wool FGS...I mean, what parent wouldn't on hearing her child has a condition than can take him away without a seconds notice ??!! My parents, apparently.
SO anyway, when my 14yo heard all thsi he's now asking if he can stay at home next year instead of coming away with us. He doesn't like one of my step daughters who lives with us, either.
He's on medication. Had no issues with his heart in the last 4 years since taking the meds. So I just don't know whatt o do for the best. I'm worried to leave him in case he does have an 'episode of heart trouble', but I don't want to mollycoddle him. HE's lived a free and easy life for 3 years. It took me one year to be able to let him go freely.
I'm posting here rather than special needs, as you really wouldn'tknow anything was wrong with him. THe meds are working. HE see's a specialst anually. He's fine. But, would you leave a 15 and a half yo at home, on hisd own, with only his maternal grandmother to keep a check on him. He's obviously get dai;ly calls from me. I'm soo stuck.
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At what age would you let them stay at home instead of coming on holiday with you??
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MrsTucky · 25/06/2007 20:59
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