My daughter is almost 15, she has alsways struggled with socialising and keeping friends but she a small group of friends who are quite similar to her, my dd has Aspergers, highly intelligent but childish at times, most of her friends possibly sit somewhere on the autistic spectrum too. Some of her friends are lovely, quiet and well behaved but one of them I struggle a little with. Tonight she has a couple of friends over for a pre Christmas get together and I’m dreading this one boy coming over. He seems to get over excited and touches everything, sometimes he breaks things, he puts his feet on my coffee table (with his shoes on) and will go in and out to the back garden despite me telling the not to go outside (I have a dog and I don’t want anyone treading dog shit through my house), he lies on the floor, jumps around and is very loud. I have told dd to make sure he keeps his feet off my table and that I don’t want any mess in my living room left over by them tonight.
My youngest dd has ASD and has always been a handful but doesn’t behave like this boy does, I feel like I have to hide anything I don’t want broken.
I know people will say ‘don’t invite him over’ but he is one of my dd’s best friends and he’s a lovely lad when not bouncing off the walls, I don’t want to discourage dd having friends as it’s taken many years for her to invite friends over,
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Lovemusic33 · 11/12/2018 12:27
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