how do I help him?
The self harm came out last week, myself and his dad have followed all steps, the school are working with him, we are talking with him, there is no shame around it etc.
The aftermath of this though as he seems to have forgotten very quickly last week and/or what was massive for us as parents is somewhat a memory to him now.
He says he is fine, he its in his room most of the time, frequently says he isnt fussed by eating, which he really isnt, he eats minimal, he is full of sarcasm. I talked to him last night and asked how are things he said he is feeling fine so is the way he is acting just that he is a teenager or is he depressed?
I want to help him and make him better but also allow him his space, he knows we are there for him maybe he just doesnt want to talk about it.
He had meet at school today with external councillor and told them he doesnt want to speak to them, he will speak to us.
I love him with all my heart, I separated from his dad Feb 2017 and accept this is my doing and just want to know how best to help him, I am so lost and feel as I am failing him massively :(
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13 yr old recently self harmed how to help
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Stace82 · 13/11/2018 17:43
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