DS14 is so up and down. This afternoon and early evening he spent 6 hours upstairs in his bedroom with his blinds closed (as he couldn’t be bothered to open them) lounging around on his phone and iPad. The only time we see him is when he wants food (if he can’t find any snacks to help himself to) or if he wants money (we don’t give him pocket money but give him money if he is doing something with a friend from school). He is so rude and ungrateful at the minute and he’s getting worse. This morning I was feeling quite ill with a kidney infection DH was out with DD and I asked if he could please feed the dog he knew how ill i was and I had to ask him 6 times. DH has a chat with him tonight and he said their is no point doing anything to help around the house as if he does one thing I will just ask him to do something else which really isn’t true. After a steam of abuse and arguing he’s stormed off to bed banging anything in his way leaving his phone on the sofa not charged. We ask him to leave his phone on charge in the living room during the week as he is up just after 6 for school.
Any advice or hope for the future I hate him going to bed angry and upset but tonight I have had enough of him. I told him I really loved and cared about him. Quite a few of his friends are from families who are separated ones mums has various fellas coming and going and th y don’t appear to have happy home life’s from what DS says. Tonight he said that they were happier than him and he would rather be them than him.
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Hellsbellscockleshells · 03/06/2018 21:50
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