Inviting ds gf to wedding

[bluebelle2017]

Me and dp are getting married in August. My 17 year old ds has recently got a girlfriend (3 months or so) and I'm wondering whether to invite her to the wedding too. Its not a massive affair but just after any advice

[19lottie82]

Does your DS want to invite her?
If so then yes invite her.

[MyBrilliantDisguise]

Of course - it makes everything much easier for you if he's got someone he wants to impress there!

[superram]

I think yes but not until much nearer the time-a month/3 weeeks before. Don’t say anything now

[BarrysnotLyons]

Just be careful she is not in all the "family" photos! When they are long broken up the photos will still exist!

[nineteentwelve]

as someone said above - it will be so much easier if he has someone to impress there! very likely he will be very charming on the day which is good! but agreed - make sure the majority of photos are without her in, just in case!

[Jackyjill6]

You've got four months to decide, unless you are planning to fly off somewhere! That'll give you more time to see how the relationship is progressing.

[ivykaty44]

Invites go out 6 weeks before, so just wait till nearer the time to see if they are still dating

I would be careful about photographs though, not to many with her in...if they break up it’s a reminder

[scrabbler3]

If they're still dating in June, invite her.

What about the hen night?