Our Dd is currently at 6th form college and had goals for future,however suffers badly with anxiety etc after lots of bullying at school who did little to solve,however now DD is sayIng she isn't going into college due to several reasons:1; A girl who bullied her at school attends college and attempted to continue though had warning!
2: Dd boyfriend dumped her over phone and was with this other girl and friend at time.
So now Dd saying no way is she going into college with this.
We have talked and she says she'll go into college and speak to tutor about everything from struggling with work to Boyfriend breakup-actually may I say myself and her dad have said this Boy never treat her as priority and always made excuses if arrangements made always something else cropped up-though Dd says she loves him and worst thing he is friends with the bully and wouldn't stop either which made me question his feelings for Dd, however now she saying she wants to leave college but not sure what to do. She is bright and we've said A levels are stressful though she seriously needs to speak to tutors today.
We've suggested she apply for voluntary work or to be college ambassador something to keep her busy and challenge her out comfort zone?
Also this horrid girl makes her feel uncomfortable and this girl has already been warned and I've suggested perhaps college get them both in room to discuss what issues are as we are concerned for future of Dd.
Also if she doesn't attend due to absence already due to sickness she'll get a warning. She is bright, though no confidence. Help not sure which way to turn. Thank you
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Monica53 · 05/02/2018 07:53
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